Hey Dad, trying to figure out your role in breastfeeding?

You’re not alone. All Dads struggle to find their place in the feeding journey.

On this page, we’ll show you how breastfeeding is best for your baby, your partner and even for your wallet.

Common Dad Misconceptions

 

  • Even though breastfeeding is the most natural way to feed your new baby, it’s a little trickier than most Moms and Dads expect. There are many obstacles than stand in the way of successful feeding:

    • Mom/Baby Anatomy

    • Over/under Milk Supply

    • Improper Latch

    • Feeding Position

    • Etc

  • Most Dads think that the size of their partners breasts will determine their supply of milk. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Milk glands are a bodily system unrelated to breast tissue volume. It is very possible for a Mom with large breasts to have issues producing milk and vice versa. Don’t assume large breasts will make feeding any easier. Big or small, milk supply can vary drastically.

  • Although some breast surgeries may make breastfeeding more difficult, many Moms who have had medical or cosmetic surgery may still be able to feed naturally. This includes surgeries such as augmentation, lifts, mass removal, and in some cases even breast implants. A CLC can help new Moms understand what will work for them based on their unique circumstances.

  • Sorry Gents. If you thought you were off the hook because you don’t have breasts, you were wrong. Although your partner will do all of the on-breast feeding sessions, your role, especially in the first few weeks of baby’s life is critical. Breastfeeding can be lonely and frustrating for new Moms. Here’s how you can play your part and help make the experience more positive:

    • Be present. Especially in the beginning. Show Mom you’ve got her back as she learns to feed. #partners

    • If Mom is pumping & storing milk, offer to bottle feed your new baby and give mom a break. This is especially welcomed at night. #dadfeed

    • Re-affirm Moms progress and compliment her successes. She needs you now more than ever and a few kind words can go a long way #confidence

Here’s What Most Dads Worry About

  • Your Money.

    Even before baby has arrived, Dads around the world are stressing about money. “How will we pay for a crib, a stroller…a college education?” In a world where things only get more expensive, this is the most common Dad pain point. After all, starting a family can be a big investment. If a new pregnancy or your families newest addition has you worried about money, don’t sweat it, you’re not alone, and believe it or not, breastfeeding can actually help! Breastfeeding your baby can reduce your first year feeding costs by thousands of dollars when compared to formula . That means a successful OHIP covered breastfeeding consultation has an infinite ROI, reducing your stress and providing your partner with the support she needs to feel good about her skill as a brand new Mom.

  • Your Sleep.

    Did you know your body can survive longer without food and water, than it can survive without sleep? No wonder new Dads stress about what their post partum sleeping patterns will look like. Although initially sleep may become your most coveted commodity after baby arrives, within a few months, more normalized sleeping routines should begin to establish themselves. After 3 months, most babies will sleep between 14-16 hours per 24 hour period, including naps. Research has shown that a well fed baby, is a better sleeper. The Nest’s breastfeeding consultations specifically help Mom learn about optimizing milk production, knowing when baby is full, and knowing how to time feeds for optimal sleep. That means, breastfeeding help from The Nest can actually help you and your partner get more consistent shut eye.

  • Your Partner.

    The first few months after baby’s arrival may be the most difficult for Mom. During this time period, your partners body is recuperating from nine months of pregnancy. In tandem, her body is also being introduced to brand new changes as she begins to breastfeed. Her mental health can also be further impacted by difficulties learning to breastfeed. Although many Moms believe breastfeeding will be easy and baby will know how to feed on his/her own, this isn’t typical. Most Moms require help to learn how to breastfeed their newborn. The best breastfeeding help is given in person, with hands on evaluation of latch, feeding positions and mom/baby anatomy. If your partner is struggling with feeding, booking a consult with a The Nest may be exactly what she needs to regain her confidence.

“ I guess I was a bit of a critic. But, after Elaina finished her visit my wife felt better about feeding Charley and felt better about herself. I’m sure Elaina kept my wife from losing hope. I’m a believer now! ”

Matthew F

Book Her a Consult.

If you think your partner could use a little help, and want to arrange for an in-office, in-home or virtual OHIP covered consultation, use the link on this page to book with The Nest.

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